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Okay, before I even start. I know this is a minecraft forum and why in the world I’m posting this here but this seriously bothers me and I need advice. I feel very suicidal at the moment because of this and please, help and give advice.

I like this one girl in my class. She’s very beautiful and has a very good heart. She cares about others and is very kind.

I have had a crush on her since the 6th - 7th grade and currently we’re in the 8th grade. So, she is with my best friend right now, like together and I have no idea what to do. My best friend did not know that I liked her so he just started hanging out with my crush and ended up getting together.

Please. Help. I’m very depressed at the moment and I keep thinking about her all the time.
 
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Everyone says this but young relationships aren't going to last. It's really upsetting and it's all you can think about at the time, I know. I'm in that situation like all the time. But trust me, it'll be over eventually. I think your options are to tell your best friend that you've liked her for a long time (if he's not the type to prioritize her over you), become close with her, or try to move on and find someone else that's even better (you may think she's the best but you never know until you find someone else ;)). Moving on is very hard but it's probably the best option.[DOUBLEPOST=1535919607][/DOUBLEPOST]Also, don't be suicidal over this. It really does suck but it's not the end of the world.
 

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Move on, or tell her how you feel and maybe get rejected but hey, there's a lot of other men out there
 

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Give it 2 months honestly, it's not going to last lol.
99% of relationships in Middle school don't last beyond 9th grade lol.
 

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Honestly, bro Middle school relationships don't work out. She'll get over her boyfriend in like a week and you can ask her maybe in high school or when she dumps him :D. I'm in 8th grade too I feel you just don't worry about it. if you have her Instagram, snap chat or whatever juts msg her. Talking to the person makes things better 100% of the time. hang in there!

EDIT: Don't even think about suicide. I can tell you its the most fucked up thing in the world. There is nothing in life close to being that bad. Your like 13 you have a life to live.
You are 13 and you are also not in 8th grade.
 

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This is just such a Would've, Could've, Should've moment. In my opinion this is the most dumb thing ive read and theres no way you can feel depressed from this your just upset. Find a new girl and next time actually speak instead of being socially awkward.
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I mean, to be honest, you should have taken a move first, he did, soo, I mean..
Alright, you should go tell her and him, there is no point in not telling them as if you don't you will hate both of them at one point, so telling them is your best option, but tell you friend first, then her lol


also friends are fake af bruh dont trust no one

edit: lol no reason to kill yourself for some girl
 
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I mean, to be honest, you should have taken a move first, he did, soo, I mean..
Alright, you should go tell her and him, there is no point in not telling them as if you don't you will hate both of them at one point, so telling them is your best option, but tell you friend first, then her lol


also friends are fake af bruh dont trust no one

edit: lol no reason to kill yourself for some girl
preach.
 

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Okay, before I even start. I know this is a minecraft forum and why in the world I’m posting this here but this seriously bothers me and I need advice. I feel very suicidal at the moment because of this and please, help and give advice.

I like this one girl in my class. She’s very beautiful and has a very good heart. She cares about others and is very kind.

I have had a crush on her since the 6th - 7th grade and currently we’re in the 8th grade. So, she is with my best friend right now, like together and I have no idea what to do. My best friend did not know that I liked her so he just started hanging out with my crush and ended up getting together.

Please. Help. I’m very depressed at the moment and I keep thinking about her all the time.
Flex by telling her you play Minecraft, always worked for me.
 
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