Divorcement Trouble With My Parents

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My parents have been divorced for about 4 years now. I am 13 years old and I can't bear living with my mother. I've argued with her every day now for about 2 years and I can't live with it any longer. I cry almost every day and I would rather live with someone else. I've done a lot of thinking and thought the solution is to just live with my dad but there's only one problem. My dad is a pilot for an airline company and leaves for 3 to 4 days at a time. So even if I was able to live with him he would have to pay someone thousands of dollars a month to keep me (never going to happen) plus I wouldn't enjoy living with someone else half of my life till I move out. I created this forum looking for solutions to hoe I can live with my dad while he still keeps his job. Please help me.
 
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Just go to school on the weekdays and then take the bus home and just stay home alone. Ask your dad to go on a big grocery shop before he leaves for 3-4 days at a time.
 

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Hello,
My parents have been divorced for about 4 years now. I am 13 years old and I can't bear living with my mother. I've argued with her every day now for about 2 years and I can't live with it any longer. I cry almost every day and I would rather live with someone else. I've done a lot of thinking and thought the solution is to just live with my dad but there's only one problem. My dad is a pilot for an airline company and leaves for 3 to 4 days at a time. So even if I was able to live with him he would have to pay someone thousands of dollars a month to keep me (never going to happen) plus I wouldn't enjoy living with someone else half of my life till I move out. I created this forum looking for solutions to hoe I can live with my dad while he still keeps his job. Please help me.
I know the situation you are in. If you want to talk privately you can add me on Skype: Aekalix and Discord: Aekalix#8582.
I'm going offline now though. Apologies.
 

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You're 13, learn how to cook and be Mature. Then move with your father and cook for urself and keep everything clean.
Just go to school on the weekdays and then take the bus home and just stay home alone. Ask your dad to go on a big grocery shop before he leaves for 3-4 days at a time.
Just go to school on the weekdays and then take the bus home and just stay home alone. Ask your dad to go on a big grocery shop before he leaves for 3-4 days at a time.
A lot of you are saying that I should take the bus to school and back but unfortunately, I live outside of the district my school is in so buses to come to where I live. I also don't believe it would be a very healthy lifestyle as a kid to go 3 to 4 days without being under adult supervision as it can lead be to do bad things.
 

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I don't mean to be rude, but I don't get why people post things like this in a block game & sales forum.
 

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I don't mean to be rude, but I don't get why people post things like this in a block game & sales forum.
Honestly, Its easy to relate with people who do the same thing as you and I think Minecraft goes deeper than a block game.
 

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A lot of you are saying that I should take the bus to school and back but unfortunately, I live outside of the district my school is in so buses to come to where I live. I also don't believe it would be a very healthy lifestyle as a kid to go 3 to 4 days without being under adult supervision as it can lead be to do bad things.
Just don't do drugs, etc...
 
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I know its tough, I am in that situation (prob not as bad as you).
Try to do well in school so you can move out, don't let it hinder your future
Yes I plan to do good in school and move out but I can't move out until I'm 18 and I can't be miserable for the next 4 and a half years.[DOUBLEPOST=1544992707][/DOUBLEPOST]
Just don't do drugs, etc... The benefits of that is you can smash some chicks.
I don't plan on doing that plus my dads got cameras rigged all up inside and out of the house Its actually very uncomfortable.
 
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Was in a similar situation, the simple solution is to create study groups with friends or go to friends houses, staying there not only provides enjoyment but also allows you to have some adult supervision while kicking back with friends
I have thought about that and It may work except that I'm in that spot at school where I don't really have friends just acquaintances, people think my life is great and always think I have so many friends but no one really knows me.
 

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Do you even know if your mother will allow you too move?
When I turn 14 by law in my state I don’t need the parents consent and I think she would anyways
 

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To be honest I would just make up with my mum and stay where you are right now.
It’s been 4 years you would think I may have tried that by now.
 

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Your in the same situation as my Friend, he didnt get well with either of his parents but his mom was too hard to live with so he eventually gave in so he lived with his dad who was ALSO a pilot and now they live in Nevada with 2 new dogs and happily ever after !
 
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