Divorcement Trouble With My Parents
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So my mom automatically has a very mean tone in her voice and she's super hypocritical she will tell me not to do something then do it herself and she's a very bad role model shes always mad at someone and she yells at me.
yeah, but how did he live with his dad was a pilot?[DOUBLEPOST=1545017778][/DOUBLEPOST]
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Hmm, maybe pretend something emotional happend to you, write a fake suicide note, idk. Make it so your mom realized what is really happening, shock her into realization. A bit crazy but desperate times call for desperate measures
what the actual fuck? do you think about what you let come out of your mouth??? you just encouraged a 13 year old to write a fake suicide note for attention. please think before you speak.
Like once my homie 6ix9ine said, bitch you stoopid
Push her off the balcony or something, steal her credit card and buy some juicy v-bucks.
Now jokes aside, i get it that it's been hard to live with your mom, i haven't read everything on this thread because it's like 6 AM, and i'm fucking tired. If i was in your position, i wouldn't do anything, just be strong, i know it might seem hard to bear with your mom for the next 4 years. My parents are divorced too, my dad is an alcoholic, my mom is kinda crazy, like not in a good way. They broke up like 6 years ago "I'm 18 btw" but they only divorced like 6 months ago. 5 of those 6 years, i had to live with them, both of them, like in the same house. I bet you can imagine how it is to live with 2 unhappy parents, crazy mother and alcoholic father, in the same house. There were nights when i wasn't able to sleep because they were arguing for ever.. Both of my parents tried to take their lives a few times in my presence, so there's that. Now i'm not looking for pity or some shit like that, if you even think about pitying me, and now i speak with every person that reads this shit, fuck you, i don't need pity. The point is, i know it might seem tough now, but trust me, the moment you get to that sweet 18, it won't seem that bad. Like.. just live your life, be happy no matter what, because trust me, it can be worse. What i suggest you is to go live with your grandma or something, if it's possible, or alive, if not.. i'm sorry. Anyway, i wish you the best kid, your life will get better soon, i like to believe that, and you should too.
Now i feel fucking retarded for writing all that shit, but i wrote so much i would be god damn sad if i would delete it now.
Now jokes aside, i get it that it's been hard to live with your mom, i haven't read everything on this thread because it's like 6 AM, and i'm fucking tired. If i was in your position, i wouldn't do anything, just be strong, i know it might seem hard to bear with your mom for the next 4 years. My parents are divorced too, my dad is an alcoholic, my mom is kinda crazy, like not in a good way. They broke up like 6 years ago "I'm 18 btw" but they only divorced like 6 months ago. 5 of those 6 years, i had to live with them, both of them, like in the same house. I bet you can imagine how it is to live with 2 unhappy parents, crazy mother and alcoholic father, in the same house. There were nights when i wasn't able to sleep because they were arguing for ever.. Both of my parents tried to take their lives a few times in my presence, so there's that. Now i'm not looking for pity or some shit like that, if you even think about pitying me, and now i speak with every person that reads this shit, fuck you, i don't need pity. The point is, i know it might seem tough now, but trust me, the moment you get to that sweet 18, it won't seem that bad. Like.. just live your life, be happy no matter what, because trust me, it can be worse. What i suggest you is to go live with your grandma or something, if it's possible, or alive, if not.. i'm sorry. Anyway, i wish you the best kid, your life will get better soon, i like to believe that, and you should too.
Now i feel fucking retarded for writing all that shit, but i wrote so much i would be god damn sad if i would delete it now.
Understandable my mother grew up in Russia she is from a strict family.[DOUBLEPOST=1545023850][/DOUBLEPOST]
Terrible idea thank you for everyone telling him that.[DOUBLEPOST=1545024072][/DOUBLEPOST]
Thanks, man, I've been trying to act nicer to her because I can always do better but its hard to change if the other person doesn't try, I came up with an example. If it takes two light switches to turn on a light and only one switch is flicked what will happen. That is our current situation I am the flipped switch and my mother is the one turned off. My grandma is sick (about to pass away) plus she lives in north Carolina and I'm in California.[DOUBLEPOST=1545024096][/DOUBLEPOST]
Someday man, someday.
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Hey I understand how you feel. My parents are divorced as well. I went through something quite similar to your situation. In my opinion, you should continue living with your mother. From what I’ve read you argue with her a lot and disagree with her views. I faced the same situation as you when I disagreed with my parents views and when I felt they were being very narrow minded. However, in my case my parent actually made a lot of sacrifices for me to raise me with a proper upbringing although we argued a lot.
I think your mother does a lot for you as well, just you don’t see it at times. The best thing I’d suggest you to do is suck up your frustration and deal living with her for the next few years. You should find a side hobby like being here on MCM to make some money. Try being more independent and do things without requiring your parents help. Once you’ve grown older, I’m sure you would eventually realise the hardships your mother went through to raise you and be grateful for it. For now you gotta endure. And even if you feel she was a bitch all this while, a few years from now, at least you have the money and skills to live independently on your own
I think your mother does a lot for you as well, just you don’t see it at times. The best thing I’d suggest you to do is suck up your frustration and deal living with her for the next few years. You should find a side hobby like being here on MCM to make some money. Try being more independent and do things without requiring your parents help. Once you’ve grown older, I’m sure you would eventually realise the hardships your mother went through to raise you and be grateful for it. For now you gotta endure. And even if you feel she was a bitch all this while, a few years from now, at least you have the money and skills to live independently on your own
First of all, not only for your own sake, but for her too, forgive her, I don't mean you must stay with her and stop searching for alternatives, no, I mean, if you are, don't hold grudge, that's only going to affect you in the end, if you retain your anger against her because of what have she made to you, she will always be in your heart in a negative way, I know it's hard to have a good attitude with someone who haves a bad attitude against you, it happens me with my brother, sometimes I try to be nice with him but after some time he acts just really bad, but that can't stop you from changing, you are the only person who can stop the change in you, so don't let the situation get into your mind and heart, after the situation passes, you will see how good it was to be nice with her, it's totally worth it.
I would suggest talking with her after you have a secondary plan just in case the thing gets worse, just tell her from the beginning that you will expose to her what you feel and what you thing about the situation and that it's affecting you, that you want her to try to change since you've been trying to do the same, that you want both to live some good years together but here attitude is making it impossible, but again, I would suggest doing that only after you have somewhere else to go already just in case the situation gets out of control, there are people who gets mad and puts on a defensive position when you try to bring on the bad stuff they do, so considering the instability of the environment it could end bad, just try to orient the talk to expressing stuff and not requesting something, that may help.
Sorry if some text haves bad grammar or doesn't makes sense, non-native here xD, blessings.
I would suggest talking with her after you have a secondary plan just in case the thing gets worse, just tell her from the beginning that you will expose to her what you feel and what you thing about the situation and that it's affecting you, that you want her to try to change since you've been trying to do the same, that you want both to live some good years together but here attitude is making it impossible, but again, I would suggest doing that only after you have somewhere else to go already just in case the situation gets out of control, there are people who gets mad and puts on a defensive position when you try to bring on the bad stuff they do, so considering the instability of the environment it could end bad, just try to orient the talk to expressing stuff and not requesting something, that may help.
Sorry if some text haves bad grammar or doesn't makes sense, non-native here xD, blessings.
that stuff really works!!!!!!!
source: me currently
But for real; stay strong man. it will definitely get better, you may have to tough it through, but let that build you into a better person. Become more independant, learn to do things for yourself, make some close friends and hang out with them constantly. Stay in school longer, go to the library, go out, go to the movies, get a job..etc. keeping your mind active and busy is the #1 key to getting through tough times. the human brain is made to work. Keep up your grades, plan your future, make goals for yourself, live in the moment, realize that there is always something, no matter the size, that there is to look forward to everyday. whether its going to sleep at night or eating a good dinner, there’s always something.
good luck my friend.
ps i would also suggest weed, not even joking. works wonders, helps me realize things in myself that i could never see.
pps i wrote all that while high so good job me! quite proud
ppps i had some spicy chips earlier and now my stomach is making weird noises
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