Life’s killing me.

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The last 4 years of my life have just been absolutely horrible. My mom and dad divorced, (dad cheated on my mom, currently living with her), meaning little to no income for us (me & my mom) since my mom gave up her “Head Marketer” job for Jim Beam and Absolute Vodka for him. Now my dad is suing my mom for I don’t know what, but we need to pay $5000 for court. Now recently my cousin’s partner died from an unknown illness. My mom was offered a job yesterday far away from my school which is practically the only place I feel I can let go of my thoughts. I’m just stuck on this downward spiral, any tips?
 
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Keep your head up, it will get better. Stay positive and try to find an activity that you enjoy, also try to understand that your Mother doesn't really have a choice, she needs the job.
 

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Damn man, so sorry to hear. I don't know how it feels like.... My best tip is just try to find someone you can trust to talk to. Teachers, any family members, even us.. Just remember to keep your head up and smile!
 

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The last 4 years of my life have just been absolutely horrible. My mom and dad divorced, (dad cheated on my mom, currently living with her), meaning little to no income for us (me & my mom) since my mom gave up her “Head Marketer” job for Jim Beam and Absolute Vodka for him. Now my dad is suing my mom for I don’t know what, but we need to pay $5000 for court. Now recently my cousin’s partner died from an unknown illness. My mom was offered a job yesterday far away from my school which is practically the only place I feel I can let go of my thoughts. I’m just stuck on this downward spiral, any tips?
I've somewhat been through the same actually.

The most I can suggest is just continue life. It may be a rocky struggle, but you'll get through it eventually. Along the way, if you do move schools, you'll make new friends, make new memories, maybe even meet a partner for yourself to help you even more.

Life isn't always fair, nor is it perfect, but what you can do is make the most out of it. Don't let things stop you from accomplishing what you want no matter how hard it may be. Just keep looking forward and don't look back as that can be your biggest mistake you'd make in your life.
 

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I've somewhat been through the same actually.

The most I can suggest is just continue life. It may be a rocky struggle, but you'll get through it eventually. Along the way, if you do move schools, you'll make new friends, make new memories, maybe even meet a partner for yourself to help you even more.

Life isn't always fair, nor is it perfect, but what you can do is make the most out of it. Don't let things stop you from accomplishing what you want no matter how hard it may be. Just keep looking forward and don't look back as that can be your biggest mistake you'd make in your life.
You made me shed a tear not gonna lie[DOUBLEPOST=1565289676][/DOUBLEPOST]
Keep your head up, it will get better. Stay positive and try to find an activity that you enjoy, also try to understand that your Mother doesn't really have a choice, she needs the job.
I appreciate you, really do. Thanks for the advice
 
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You made me shed a tear not gonna lie
I am just saying what I experienced. I've been through similar things. When I switched schools, I got lucky enough to meet some amazing friends and got myself a girlfriend who's helped me so much in my life and made me so much more happier. I know not everyone will experience the same, but nonetheless, you should keep looking forward and continuing to pursue the life you want. Do not let anyone influence you into the wrong direction. It's not worth it.
 

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Damn man, so sorry to hear. I don't know how it feels like.... My best tip is just try to find someone you can trust to talk to. Teachers, any family members, even us.. Just remember to keep your head up and smile!
Thanks for the help, i’m trying to find more friends that I can talk to for sure :)
 

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Thanks for the help, i’m trying to find more friends that I can talk to for sure :)
Yep! Friends are awesome... School is a good place to make new friends, online, whatever you're comfortable with
 

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Man, sorry to hear, I feel your pain, but all I can say is that life always makes a turn, and I'm sure your will too. All I can say is be positive and it will come to you.
 

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Man, sorry to hear, I feel your pain, but all I can say is that life always makes a turn, and I'm sure your will too. All I can say is be positive and it will come to you.
Thanks so much for the motivation, means a lot.
 

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No problem man, hope everything goes well.
 

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going a little bit off topic but - everyone said that everyone was going to die in 2012, right? nobody has felt alive since.. summer 2019 has been boring even with all the parties. crazy[DOUBLEPOST=1565292440][/DOUBLEPOST]but honestly, back on topic. i hope all the best for you. keep you chin up and keep smiling. you will always have a rainbow after a storm.
 

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going a little bit off topic but - everyone said that everyone was going to die in 2012, right? nobody has felt alive since.. summer 2019 has been boring even with all the parties. crazy[DOUBLEPOST=1565292440][/DOUBLEPOST]but honestly, back on topic. i hope all the best for you. keep you chin up and keep smiling. you will always have a rainbow after a storm.
Well said man!
 

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"Life's killing me." Yes true the only thing which will kill you is life, you're born to die what a great world right.

Honestly you can be happy as fuck one day, the other day you just want to kill yourself. Find something you're passionate about. Get an actual hobby. You will have horrible times where you are at the lowest. At the end of the day everything is going to be fine.

I haven't actually experienced this cause my family is well put together, we got everything we need, couldn't ask for more ngl. Even with this you can have horrible points of life. Stay strong :D
 

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"Life's killing me." Yes true the only thing which will kill you is life, you're born to die what a great world right.

Honestly you can be happy as fuck one day, the other day you just want to kill yourself. Find something you're passionate about. Get an actual hobby. You will have horrible times where you are at the lowest. At the end of the day everything is going to be fine.

I haven't actually experienced this cause my family is well put together, we got everything we need, couldn't ask for more ngl. Even with this you can have horrible points of life. Stay strong :D
Thanks for the wise words <3
 
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