Question for women

[Claxxed]

So, this topic is entitled to women only, but it's a serious question.

I'm 21 years old, my old lady is 25 years old, shes been on the depo shot (Depo-Provera) for about 5 years now. Recently within the last 2 months shes been having some serious headaches, stomach pains. Like this is an everyday thing almost. What i'm nerveous about is that she may or may not be pregnant.

She's took 4 pregnancy test within the last 2 & half months and everything has came back that shes not pregnant. I'm still concerned that she may be, but what are the chances? Can any female help me out here? I'm going insane.... And very nerveous.

 

[jspace]

I'm not a female but my advice is take her to the doctors? Idk go check it up

 

[Claxxed]

I'm not a female but my advice is take her to the doctors? Idk go check it up

She scheduled an appointment for this friday with her depo-shot doctor, shes having a blood drawn test this time to actually see if she's pregnant.

 

[jspace]

She scheduled an appointment for this friday with her depo-shot doctor, shes having a blood drawn test this time to actually see if she's pregnant.

then you should just wait till friday for professional feedback

 

[Claxxed]

then you should just wait till friday for professional feedback

I'm just nervous

 

[jspace]

I'm just nervous

ooooo you could be a daddyyyyyyyy lol yeah thats perfectly normal dont stress too much

 

[Claxxed]

ooooo you could be a daddyyyyyyyy lol yeah thats perfectly normal dont stress too much

Please don't say that

 

[Annie S.]

While neither I nor anyone else on this site is remotely qualified to be giving out professional medical advice, to ease your nervousness until the doctor’s appointment: in general, pregnancy tests are effective after the first missed period — you said that your partner took hers 2-3 months after the presumed conception. The chances of so many false negatives that late after conception is highly unlikely. In other words, she probably is not.

Here is a relatively reputable source you can read about home pregnancy tests.

However!! Definitely seek professional advice on this, especially since it seems like your partner is having some sort of health complications. It would also put both of you at ease having a definite answer.

This is a little out of boundaries, but it does seem that you’re not altogether eager about the prospects of being a father. If so, I would definitely also consult your physician about measures you can take to prevent future scares like these. I’m sure they’ll be happy to help, good luck, and I hope your partner is okay.

 

[Claxxed]

This is an odd question for a minecraft forum.

This is more than just a Minecraft forum fyi.

While neither I nor anyone else on this site is remotely qualified to be giving out professional medical advice, to ease your nervousness until the doctor’s appointment: in general, pregnancy tests are effective after the first missed period — you said that your partner took hers 2-3 months after the presumed conception. The chances of so many false negatives that late after conception is highly unlikely. In other words, she probably is not.

Here is a relatively reputable source you can read about home pregnancy tests.

However!! Definitely seek professional advice on this, especially since it seems like your partner is having some sort of health complications. It would also put both of you at ease having a definite answer.

This is a little out of boundaries, but it does seem that you’re not altogether eager about the prospects of being a father. If so, I would definitely also consult your physician about measures you can take to prevent future scares like these. I’m sure they’ll be happy to help, good luck, and I hope your partner is okay.

I appreciate the feedback, I guess we'll just have to see come friday once we get the blood test results.

 

[Sloth]

Have fun raising a kid, you’ll be a great father.

 

[BrianGrug]

Check out my name.. but on a real note, good luck!

 

[Claxxed]

Have fun raising a kid, you’ll be a great father.

Check out my name.. but on a real note, good luck!

No, no no no no no no no no... I do NOT want any kids right now.

 

[Megumin]

Hope it's a boy

 

[payaso]

My girl had something very similar to what you are describing and it was caused by the birth control pills she was taking

 

[Ted]

I know I'm not a women, but...
After lots of research into birth control since my girlfriend started taking it, I wanted to know the risks. Unfortunately, birth control reacts differently, and symptoms can vary between women. Also since there are many types of birth control, it's hard to produce longterm symptoms since most birth controls get canceled, or production stops and a new/similar birth control is issued. So for a diagnosis to be released that is more directed towards the issue is harder to find online. I'm no doctor, but after four pregnancy tests spanning over several days-weeks, all returning negative. I believe that she may not be pregnant. However, that's up to the professionals to decide that. Also, not to scare you or anything but BC doesn't prevent pregnancies. There is still a significantly small chance that she can get pregnant. My high-school teacher's sister had two children while on BC, so just a heads up. Maybe look towards alternative ways..?

I would look more into what Annie S. is saying, and I hope that your lady will make it through until Friday. As a man, do your best to comfort her and make sure she gets enough rest.

Side Note: Did she receive any antibiotics around the time of conception? That or before / after? Some antibiotics eliminate the effect of birth control.

 

[Annie S.]

I know I'm not a women, but...
After lots of research into birth control since my girlfriend started taking it, I wanted to know the risks. Unfortunately, birth control reacts differently, and symptoms can vary between women. Also since there are many types of birth control, it's hard to produce longterm symptoms since most birth controls get canceled, or production stops and a new/similar birth control is issued. So for a diagnosis to be released that is more directed towards the issue is harder to find online. I'm no doctor, but after four pregnancy tests spanning over several days-weeks, all returning negative. I believe that she may not be pregnant. However, that's up to the professionals to decide that. Also, not to scare you or anything but BC doesn't prevent pregnancies. There is still a significantly small chance that she can get pregnant. My high-school teacher's sister had two children while on BC, so just a heads up. Maybe look towards alternative ways..?

I would look more into what Annie S. is saying, and I hope that your lady will make it through until Friday. As a man, do your best to comfort her and make sure she gets enough rest.

Side Note: Did she receive any antibiotics around the time of conception? That or before / after? Antibiotics eliminate the effect of birth control.

As “a women”, it’s so refreshing to hear that you’ve looked into your partner’s birth control and you’re being involved in the process. An unfortunately good amount of my male partners have just either completely washed their hands of the matter or tried to argue that birth control isn’t needed, etc. Keep it up!

 

[casket]

name the child justin pls

 

[Ken]

No, no no no no no no no no... I do NOT want any kids right now.

shouldve worn a condom but holy shit people asking for advice on a minecraft market forum