Talking To Girls

[Rifts]

Hey MCM,

So there's this girl in my school right, we've been together before but it was a really awkward relationship because none of us had ever really had anyone before and we didn't have a clue what to say to each other. We are both kinda confident by ourselves or with our friends, but when it came to each other, we were just so weird and awkward man.

In the end we broke up (about 10 months ago) and we both like each other again. Now I'm 15 and so is she and obviously that means things have kinda changed. I'm basically asking for girl advice. What do I say to girls, what do they enjoy talking about, and how do I keep a conversation going? All help is appreciated lol, I know I'm a noob at life and whatever but I need to take the next step here and build up my confidence.

Cheers, Sam.
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[Day]

Wait till you're out of high school man. Thank me later. Stay friends though; there's nothing wrong with that.

Don't overthink the convo, just focus on listening to what they're saying rather than what to say next and you'll never run out of things to talk about. Use open ended questions as well;

Hope this helps my man!


My experience comes from having a relationship for a year and a half; best of luck my friend.

 

[Meox]

The post above says it all, confidence really isn't something that is just there or not. Life experience and talking to a variety of people help build confidence when conversing with all sorts. I didn't really get my confidence till I was 17 and joined a sales team and had to go door to door selling wax. Most high school relationships end because you really don't know what love is right now and your brain is still developing (try reading your facebook messages from when you were 12 YIKES) so I want to save you from looking back when your 25 going oh no I can't message her I was such a kid in high school alm of the face: any questions?

 

[sentosa]

The best relationships come from the best of friends. If you don't feel comfortable being alone with them then you sure as hell won't be comfortable alone in a relationship with them. Your significant other shouldn't just be your "girlfriend" or "boyfriend"; they should also be your friend.

 

[SheepeyDarkness]

yall weird asf

ask for booty pics duh

Agreed, but also asking for penis pics would be a better start imo.

 

[Airee]

This heaping pile of virgins is the wrong place to ask for advice with the ladies.

 

[Vint]

Confidence, is the key to success.

 

[Dad]

Damn girl are you a bonemeal cause you're making my tree grow

 

[RaptorX]

Literally same situation, good luck!

 

[Mophie321YT]

Agreed, but also asking for penis pics would be a better start imo.

yes lol

 

[Fr3shie]

If y’all’s convo isn’t coming naturally or it’s super awkward u prob don’t know each other enough or it’s just not meant to be

 

[ajl]

I agree with nightCS.
Don't overthink anything and just don't act immature
I have no experience but thats my advice