What happened

[Doge]

I am making this thread to set the record straight about what actually happened so people can stop making assumptions and spreading false rumors and lies that you’ve been told.

This first wall of text is just some backstory.

This had to be edited out, I’m sorry. What was here before was just a long 2 paragraphs explaining what Jess did to me and how emotionally abusive she was. I have screenshots of everything and have posted some at the bottom of the thread. She spread lies about me, claiming I “doxed” her and previously I went over what actually happened (I just googled stuff and I found out she lied to me and then I confronted her about it.) She is trying to play the victim and is projecting her insecurities onto me.


Later after that, my group chat on MCM was looked at by Mick. The “group chat” is a large PM with over 17k messages with a group of friends on MCM. In there, I just chatted with friends and helped them out with stuff. One thing that happened was that I had added Golden’s new account after he was banned, however I was just told to add this account (and another one) and doing alt checks resulted in nothing. But I get it, I should’ve asked about it and just not added anyone like that because it looks really bad. In addition I was asked about giving such quick support to everyone in that PM which I admit I shouldn’t have been doing because to be fair, everyone should be given support via the support request system and reports rather than like I was doing. I also asked thoughts about a new rule that was discussed in the staff chat without referencing to that fact. The chat overall just had stuff like that, me just chilling out with friends and helping them with their reports, all of which was only viewed because it was on mcm. Anyway after this and a lot of talking/thinking, Mick gave me a chance and said it I could keep going which I was very thankful for and I really appreciated. A few days later, I notice that Jess made doxing/hacking threats against me and I spoke to Justis about it, Cate spoke to Tech about it and BOTH of them had to hand it over to Mick to handle because I, Justis and Tech all have issues with Jess, so Mick had to do it. And then he warned Jess, leading to her suspension. An hour later I get a message from Mick giving me the news and saying that my demotion was because I still gave support to my friends in that group chat, but I didn’t feel I did anything that I wouldn’t for anyone else. The two things were me joking around with Glove about what happened in chat the prior day, (The whole Glove getting a porsche thing and his argument with MTG) and then Shen asked me to do an alt check on someone which I had checked previously because he was new and messaged me before. I told him “no matches” because I already looked into this guy before and I knew already. I said those things because I didn’t think I was doing anything wrong, I mean I could’ve just used discord if I wanted to and Mick couldn’t have viewed anything. But I had nothing to hide so I kept using the same group chat. And that is what led to this ultimately.


Mick wrote a nice message with good intentions and a reflection of everything before making that last decision and everything was done calmly and on a good note, so please don’t give him any hate. I do still think that those last two things that happened should’ve been discussed more and maybe I could’ve just disbanded that group chat, but it’s already been done.


And honestly, I really had a good time but lately I’ve found things to just be more of a chore. I’ve been very busy irl with things (I recently got admitted into a top US university along with a scholarship as well and after graduation I’m going to be majoring in business so I can manage the family one and know how to properly invest my inheritance. Oh and Cate will have moved over here by then, already spoke to her + family about this). Because of all this, I have to admit that I’ve had much less time to spend on mcm and I just got comfortable with friends a lot. And quite frankly, I'd have resigned/been way too inactive when I started uni anyway. Huge thank you to the people who have been very supportive of me and appreciate all that I’ve done. It’s been amazing working with you all!


Misc Screenshots:

Spoiler

This is after she found out I was with Cate ^

Insulting Cate more after I try to reason ^

Further insulting ^

READ THAT, P-R-O-J-E-C-T-I-O-N ^

^ Blatant Projection LOL

 

[ZACK]

rip, you was the best staff member

 

[Choo]

We'll still love our favorite Doggo

 

[buildblox]

I am making this thread to set the record straight about what actually happened so people can stop making assumptions and spreading false rumors and lies that you’ve been told.


This first wall of text is just some backstory.


Backstory:

First of all, a relatively small group of people have been lied to by Jess and don’t understand what actually happened. For those who don’t know, around early September I wasn’t feeling all that great and for some reason decided to start this edating thing with Jess. It was a low point, I know man, save the clowning for later. Anyway, she turned out to be the most emotionally abusive, self-centered, unfeeling, uncaring poor excuse of a human ever. Basically, she only cared about herself and that was it. I was always the one who was there, always the one to give support. When something was going wrong with her, that’s all she cared about, nothing else mattered and it was short replies from there. And if I ever said anything, she didn’t care at all, ignored me a lot and barely said anything. She said “I don’t deserve you” at times in reference to how well I treated her when she was down and just always, and oh boy was she right on that. I don’t know why I even stayed for the month-ish I did, but I foolishly did. What ended it was she started talking to someone else, cheated, and then completely left me behind and then she still tried to say it was my fault. But after that, everything was done and there was no anger, nothing. We said we’d just forget about it and move on. And I thought everything was over… until I was in a relationship with Cate and Jess found out. Clearly she wasn’t over me. She began to ask about my profile pic and who that was. I said “Cate” and then she looked her up and said “Anastasia?” and proceeded to berate and name-call Cate, the typical “slut” bullshit which is her name for any girl other than herself due to her own insecurity I’ve come to notice. Then after, she changes her profile pic to the one she got made of us and I was really creeped out by that to say the least. At that point I knew she was jealous of me and Cate, and wasn’t over me clearly, she had even said “wow you got over that fast” or something like that and I thought to myself “Yeah.. I told you that I was over it a while ago and I meant what I said, I thought you were too.” I blocked her on discord shortly after and she proceeded to go onto MCM PMs to continue, trying to make it seem as if “I didn’t care”.. always trying to make it my fault. I stopped replying and then she goes onto twitter to try and further harass me there which I also ignored. And then after sweet silence for a month, I thought it was over again, but I was wrong.

Recent

Just recently, she started making many false accusations, one of those being she thought that I “doxed” her using data from MCM, when in reality none of that happened. Going back to around September, I talked to Arc a lot, he was and is now again a good friend of mine. He was with Jess before too and told me all the warnings, and I didn’t realize them until it was over and he got his sweet “I told you so moment”. Anyway, Arc told me some things about Jess lying and not being who she says she is. So I decided to see for myself. I needed an alias to google and see where else she was. So I found one from NameMC history and tried googled it. It led to many minecraft server forums, one being The Hive, which had a Deviantart link. I noticed all of those have different locations and ages, all of which I thought was very weird. Then on top of that, I found an entry in the MC Resolver leak in a google entry which had an IP in a city that was in the same country but entirely different city. When I confronted Jess about this back in September, she was just going on about how she just puts random locations and claimed the IP result was inaccurate. I don’t know why I believed her, but I did and she tried to make me feel bad for not trusting her. Well anyway, fast forward to a month or so ago, someone says they were sent to talk to me about Jess and my past experience with her because this person was considering a relationship with her or something. The person tells me “And she said she was from City X” Right there, I thought WTF, she gave me a different city. So then I told him that she lied to him because he told me something else and she is likely in the city which that IP leads to. The one which is from googling and NOT MCM. Which I think she tried to make it seem like it was, but it really wasn’t. She completely lied about that and tried to paint me as the bad one, when in reality she is the terrible, lying and manipulative person who causes nothing but harm to others.


Later after that, my group chat on MCM was looked at by Mick. The “group chat” is a large PM with over 17k messages with a group of friends on MCM. In there, I just chatted with friends and helped them out with stuff. One thing that happened was that I had added Golden’s new account after he was banned, however I was just told to add this account (and another one) and doing alt checks resulted in nothing. But I get it, I should’ve asked about it and just not added anyone like that because it looks really bad. In addition I was asked about giving such quick support to everyone in that PM which I admit I shouldn’t have been doing because to be fair, everyone should be given support via the support request system and reports rather than like I was doing. I also asked thoughts about a new rule that was discussed in the staff chat without referencing to that fact. The chat overall just had stuff like that, me just chilling out with friends and helping them with their reports, all of which was only viewed because it was on mcm. Anyway after this and a lot of talking/thinking, Mick gave me a chance and said it I could keep going which I was very thankful for and I really appreciated. A few days later, I notice that Jess made doxing/hacking threats against me and I spoke to Justis about it, Cate spoke to Tech about it and BOTH of them had to hand it over to Mick to handle because I, Justis and Tech all have issues with Jess, so Mick had to do it. And then he warned Jess, leading to her suspension. She clearly must’ve tried to manipulate Mick or something because an hour later I get a message from Mick giving me the news and saying that my demotion was because I still gave support to my friends in that group chat, but I didn’t feel I did anything that I wouldn’t for anyone else. The two things were me joking around with Glove about what happened in chat the prior day, (The whole Glove getting a porsche thing and his argument with MTG) and then Shen asked me to do an alt check on someone which I had checked previously because he was new and messaged me before. I told him “no matches” because I already looked into this guy before and I knew already. I said those things because I didn’t think I was doing anything wrong, I mean I could’ve just used discord if I wanted to and Mick couldn’t have viewed anything. But I had nothing to hide so I kept using the same group chat. And that is what led to this ultimately.


Mick wrote a nice message with good intentions and a reflection of everything before making that last decision and everything was done calmly and on a good note, so please don’t give him any hate. If anyone, it should be the horrible person I described in the first paragraph. I do still think that those last two things that happened should’ve been discussed more and maybe I could’ve just disbanded that group chat, but it’s already been done.


And honestly, I really had a good time but lately I’ve found things to just be more of a chore. I’ve been very busy irl with things (I recently got admitted into a top US university along with a scholarship as well and after graduation I’m going to be majoring in business so I can manage the family one and know how to properly invest my inheritance. Oh and Cate will have moved over here by then, already spoke to her + family about this). Because of all this, I have to admit that I’ve had much less time to spend on mcm and I just got comfortable with friends a lot. And quite frankly, I'd have resigned/been way too inactive when I started uni anyway. Huge thank you to the people who have been very supportive of me and appreciate all that I’ve done. It’s been amazing working with you all!


Misc Screenshots:

Spoiler

This is after she found out I was with Cate ^

Insulting Cate more after I try to reason ^

Further insulting ^

READ THAT, P-R-O-J-E-C-T-I-O-N ^

^ Blatant Projection LOL

Sorry you had to go through that. If I may ask, what university was it exactly?

 

[Picturesque]

I cri everytime

 

[stephvibes]

Respect for Doge and all you did for MCM. I hope you still have a place for us Marketers here! Congrats on the Scholarship and Good Luck in life!
Doge Realest G

 

[Jihyo]

RIP Doge, best MCM staff member :/

 

[dxn]

Spoiler

y i k e s

 

[Bryan]

Okay first and foremost, for all you people hating and clowning Doge for edating - You're all sad. Why do you have to hate on someone for actually being happy with someone else. Like does it really bother you that he's happy with someone and they actually care about each other. This is exactly why I hate that term and I get it, so many people who date online just to mess around make is seem like a joke to everyone but relationships can start online. I hope the best to you two.

 

[Orochimaru]

Okay first and foremost, for all you people hating and clowning Doge for edating - You're all sad. Why do you have to hate on someone for actually being happy with someone else. Like does it really bother you that he's happy with someone and they actually care about each other. This is exactly why I hate that term and I get it, so many people who date online just to mess around make is seem like a joke to everyone but relationships can start online. I hope the best to you two.

If the internet didn't exist I wouldn't have been born.

 

[Hound]

Congrats on the scholarship though Doge !

 

[Godly]

lol your profile pic is the cutest shit ive seen yet

doge I will miss you a lot as an admin. handled latterly everything and anything.

gl at uni

 

[Grady]

I assume this is why Jess was asking how to "hack" in the shoutbox and that she was super desperate.

 

[Verringer]

forever in my heart doge