a discussion on life

[Ghast]

We have to have a real talk here. What’s up with everyone wanting to be « popular », do « something good for earth and being known for it ».

People wish to be reminded of, to be known after their death. Sadly life does not work like that. After you die everything disappeirs, everything you’ve dreamed, you’ve done, you’ve accomplished. Even if you are Albert Einstein one day no one will remember you, and you can’t do a damn thing to change that.

I think I should share that it’s really important to live the life you want, being an overworking paid slave or to be a self-employed business man, to be a rejected cleaner or to be a famous actor. I’ve learned a lot and honestly there’s one thing you should do: chase your dream, never... never I say never give up what you want.

I am sharing this because I’ve been pushed my whole life to do my best to get to my dream, and the hard worked turned into pleasure and fun. I’ve never been so happy in my life and I know some of you believe that you can’t reach it, you don’t have the mental or physical capabilities to do it, which is complete bullshit. I saved up my hard worked money for two years before buying my first gaming computer. Two years! Yet I never let myself down. Some others have done the same, Marek, fawny etc..
Succes was never what the achieved at first, but then an opportunity met them and they took it.

To all the pathetic idiots who are gonna make a joke out of this: Honestly what are you doing laughing at someone who is more succesful than you are since he’s not wasting time.

Hope y’all have a wonderful day,
Stay awesome
Ghast.

 

[Aero512]

that is deep.

 

[Louwtjie]

We have to have a real talk here. What’s up with everyone wanting to be « popular », do « something good for earth and being known for it ».

People wish to be reminded of, to be known after their death. Sadly life does not work like that. After you die everything disappeirs, everything you’ve dreamed, you’ve done, you’ve accomplished. Even if you are Albert Einstein one day no one will remember you, and you can’t do a damn thing to change that.

I think I should share that it’s really important to live the life you want, being an overworking paid slave or to be a self-employed business man, to be a rejected cleaner or to be a famous actor. I’ve learned a lot and honestly there’s one thing you should do: chase your dream, never... never I say never give up what you want.

I am sharing this because I’ve been pushed my whole life to do my best to get to my dream, and the hard worked turned into pleasure and fun. I’ve never been so happy in my life and I know some of you believe that you can’t reach it, you don’t have the mental or physical capabilities to do it, which is complete bullshit. I saved up my hard worked money for two years before buying my first gaming computer. Two years! Yet I never let myself down. Some others have done the same, Marek, fawny etc..
Succes was never what the achieved at first, but then an opportunity met them and they took it.

To all the pathetic idiots who are gonna make a joke out of this: Honestly what are you doing laughing at someone who is more succesful than you are since he’s not wasting time.

Hope y’all have a wonderful day,
Stay awesome
Ghast.

So Refreshing seeing the wonderful message.

I myself goes through this everyday waking up at 5 Am going to the gym coming back taking a shower getting ready for class from 8 Am till 6PM then assignments learning etc. You need the push in life, the motivation is the hate I receive from people not wanting to see your succeed the power from friends and family. The support from people in my home town. As when they ask "What do you do?" Oh wow Law amazing.

Life is full of ups and downs being diagnosed with depression myself I know what its like not having the mental captivity to achieve your dreams, at the end of the day you need to be your own inspiration,

Plus, the fact that I'll be a lawyer in 1 year while most of these haters will be working at McDonald is a major mood.

 

[Ghast]

So Refreshing seeing the wonderful message.

I myself goes through this everyday waking up at 5 Am going to the gym coming back taking a shower getting ready for class from 8 Am till 6PM then assignments learning etc. You need the push in life, the motivation is the hate I receive from people not wanting to see your succeed the power from friends and family. The support from people in my home town. As when they ask "What do you do?" Oh wow Law amazing.

Life is full of ups and downs being diagnosed with depression myself I know what its like not having the mental captivity to achieve your dreams, at the end of the day you need to be your own inspiration,

Plus, the fact that I'll be a lawyer in 1 year while most of these haters will be working at McDonald is a major mood.

Exactly. Chase your dreams man. You'll get there, and honestly how is crying going to help your case? Maybe magically a solution will come? Nope. Stay strong.

that is deep.

It's funny because anything which has a real value is deep. Just a coincidence

 

[MrAniman2]

My two cents ...Only tiny part of the people in their 20's actually understand what they want and what are the true values of the life... If you think you are correct most of the time and you are making the right choices you couldn't be more wrong. There are multiple things regarding this but I'll touch just 2 of them briefly.

In these days we can see most kids/teenagers to push themselves and study hard just to be able to get well paid job (managers/ceo, etc.) and spend the rest of their life at the desk 40-60h per week... You might think I am wrong and it's not gonna happen to you...but often unfortunately it does happen. Other people think they will be able to change their professional qualification and do something else but often it's not possible as you will have responsibilities (bills, wife, children) ...so you might end up stuck at that workplace/sphere of work all your life. And if it's sitting at the desk then you will most likely start to suffer from back/neck injuries around your 30's.

"Health is not everything, but everything is nothing without health"

Also, many people think you can go to gym few hours a week and then sit at the desk/pc/tv the rest of the week and it will be fine...well I believe active workday outside can benefit a lot more then few hours intense training in the gym.

One more common mistake in my opinion is to strive to get the best paid jobs...as Louwtjie showed it above:
"Plus, the fact that I'll be a lawyer in 1 year while most of these haters will be working at McDonald is a major mood. " ..terrible motivation if you ask me. If it's truly what you want to do then I am happy for you but you trully should strive for recognition from other people not for envy or to be feared from. I quite often meet one particular cleaner lady and in all honesty I can say she is a great person, easy to talk to (despite our age difference), very positive to everyone, quite smart, works for free in local charities and always is ready to help but those businessmans/wealthy people (I live in small village where everyone knows each other) are people I despise...money is the only thing in their mind, showoff (expensive cars) and rudeness is the only thing they know. One example which might make my point a bit more clear .. Recently there were a guy murdered in my country. He was kind of a lawyer (not sure what his profession is called in english but he was dealing with company bankruptcy cases and basically he split the company assets as he wanted) In short: he got greedy and last year his earnings reached more than 1 mil eur... and apparently he was dealing with the wrong people as he was shoot in his luxus car on the road in middle of the day. It was the top story for the long time but the thing is...pretty much all people on social media didn't care about him and I could say almost supported the murder as he was not honorable person...corrupted af. Interesting fact, when his neighbour was questioned (lived like 50m away in the next house) he said that despite being neighbourgs for a long time he didn't know the guy and haven't spoken with him much. ...So this is where the people who strive to be rich might end up...

"If you realize you are dumb then you are probably smarter than most people around you."


Ghast "Honestly what are you doing laughing at someone who is more successful than you are since he’s not wasting time."
True success is when you are happy with what you do even if it is a cleaners work and you don't feel like you have to prove anything to anyone...

I have most likely wasted 30 min of my life writing this for nothing but I still want to hope this will help someone to revalue their priorities.

 

[Drub.]

A quote I have written to myself a few years ago when my little brother passed away.
"It isn't important how you fall, it is important how you get up."

 

[fawny]

This was so cute. I love seeing people be positive about their lives. So many people think being negative is a personality trait and makes them so unique. It’s just sad. Life is what you make of it, and yeah, a lot of people suffer with depression and it makes life hard. But they’re still here. Making the best of it. Living their life. They’re still here, regardless if it’s for drawing, cooking, their pet dog, their favorite show. Not everyone’s life is as exciting as Bill Gates. But it’s your life. No one can change that. I love you all.

 

[Ghast]

A quote I have written to myself a few years ago when my little brother passed away.
"It isn't important how you fall, it is important how you get up."

Wonderful quote!

This was so cute. I love seeing people be positive about their lives. So many people think being negative is a personality trait and makes them so unique. It’s just sad. Life is what you make of it, and yeah, a lot of people suffer with depression and it makes life hard. But they’re still here. Making the best of it. Living their life. They’re still here, regardless if it’s for drawing, cooking, their pet dog, their favorite show. Not everyone’s life is as exciting as Bill Gates. But it’s your life. No one can change that. I love you all.

Love you too as a friend and as a customer

My two cents ...Only tiny part of the people in their 20's actually understand what they want and what are the true values of the life... If you think you are correct most of the time and you are making the right choices you couldn't be more wrong. There are multiple things regarding this but I'll touch just 2 of them briefly.

In these days we can see most kids/teenagers to push themselves and study hard just to be able to get well paid job (managers/ceo, etc.) and spend the rest of their life at the desk 40-60h per week... You might think I am wrong and it's not gonna happen to you...but often unfortunately it does happen. Other people think they will be able to change their professional qualification and do something else but often it's not possible as you will have responsibilities (bills, wife, children) ...so you might end up stuck at that workplace/sphere of work all your life. And if it's sitting at the desk then you will most likely start to suffer from back/neck injuries around your 30's.

"Health is not everything, but everything is nothing without health"

Also, many people think you can go to gym few hours a week and then sit at the desk/pc/tv the rest of the week and it will be fine...well I believe active workday outside can benefit a lot more then few hours intense training in the gym.

One more common mistake in my opinion is to strive to get the best paid jobs...as Louwtjie showed it above:
"Plus, the fact that I'll be a lawyer in 1 year while most of these haters will be working at McDonald is a major mood. " ..terrible motivation if you ask me. If it's truly what you want to do then I am happy for you but you trully should strive for recognition from other people not for envy or to be feared from. I quite often meet one particular cleaner lady and in all honesty I can say she is a great person, easy to talk to (despite our age difference), very positive to everyone, quite smart, works for free in local charities and always is ready to help but those businessmans/wealthy people (I live in small village where everyone knows each other) are people I despise...money is the only thing in their mind, showoff (expensive cars) and rudeness is the only thing they know. One example which might make my point a bit more clear .. Recently there were a guy murdered in my country. He was kind of a lawyer (not sure what his profession is called in english but he was dealing with company bankruptcy cases and basically he split the company assets as he wanted) In short: he got greedy and last year his earnings reached more than 1 mil eur... and apparently he was dealing with the wrong people as he was shoot in his luxus car on the road in middle of the day. It was the top story for the long time but the thing is...pretty much all people on social media didn't care about him and I could say almost supported the murder as he was not honorable person...corrupted af. Interesting fact, when his neighbour was questioned (lived like 50m away in the next house) he said that despite being neighbourgs for a long time he didn't know the guy and haven't spoken with him much. ...So this is where the people who strive to be rich might end up...

"If you realize you are dumb then you are probably smarter than most people around you."


Ghast "Honestly what are you doing laughing at someone who is more successful than you are since he’s not wasting time."
True success is when you are happy with what you do even if it is a cleaners work and you don't feel like you have to prove anything to anyone...

I have most likely wasted 30 min of my life writing this for nothing but I still want to hope this will help someone to revalue their priorities.

If you do what you love, it’s good. But if you can do something you love even more that’s what you should aim for.

 

[FuhrerMatt]

You guys are so smart! It makes me so happy that I am witnessing this awakening among the youth!

 

[fawny]

You guys are so smart! It makes me so happy that I am witnessing this awakening among the youth!

"the youth!"

when kids think being edgy is a personality trait