How do you talk with girls?

[Olivia]

Am I the only person here who don’t know how to talk to girls face to face?
Like what am I supposed to say? I can’t talk with girls like I talk with my friends, they’ll just think that I am weird. How do I do?

Like it’s not that I’ve never talked with a girl before, omg it doesn’t sound good when I am writing this... Give me advice.

 

[Sloth]

Just talk to them like you would anyone else. You don’t have to act differently or talk differently for each gender.

 

[Olivia]

Just talk to them like you would anyone else. You don’t have to act differently or talk differently for each gender.

Feels like I’m just going to do some awkward stuff and just interact with them in a weird way. I guess it’s not even worth a try.

 

[Sloth]

Feels like I’m just going to do some awkward stuff and just interact with them in a weird way. I guess it’s not even worth a try.

I mean if you act awkward with anyone they’re probably going to think you’re weird. Just act like yourself and you’ll be fine. Plus there are also a lot of awkward girls too

 

[Olivia]

I mean if you act awkward with anyone they’re probably going to think you’re weird. Just act like yourself and you’ll be fine. Plus there are also a lot of awkward girls too

Okay, no. I rather not.

 

[Choo]

Say something really offensive so they remember you. The key is to implant yourself in her brain.

 

[Olivia]

Say something really offensive so they remember you. The key is to implant yourself in her brain.

True.

 

[Fanta]

Like Sloth said, just talk to them normally. They’re human just like you.. good luck my friend

 

[Ellie]

Just talk and dont be absurdly creepy about it... talk like a normal human being or you look like you need therapy

 

[CharonIV]

I learned how to talk to girls by playing a small server of about 300 people a lot of girls played that server and back in the day we'd all get in skype calls and I was forced to talk to them, then I'd stay in contact with them using enjin then go in private skype calls, 13 year old me was getting all the Minecraft grills, but jokes aside it made me way better at socialising irl.

 

[Baeden]

Think about it this way, if you try to play a fake persona for a girl, they're going to eventually find out. Women find out EVERYTHING. Just be yourself, depending on how old you are, your interactions with girls may be awkward but you will get past that stage. Ultimately, just act how you would in front of your friends, maybe with a filter at first though so you don't weird the girl out.

 

[markd]

pro tip: if someone says they are ugly, say they are not... u got urself into a deep convo

 

[Olivia]

Does anyone who commented on this, actually go outside and talk to women?

no u

 

[Olivia]

 

[Ellie]

This thread is making me question everyones basic social abilities and its kinda scary

 

[Desert]

just watch "love and hip hop" or whatever the name is, you'll find your answer throughout the episodes in there, literally that ez 4head git gud kid

 

[Jami]

Be funny without being cringy.