I do art.... only guy in my class
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Ya I asked my gf out when high, had an entire plan down and shit to do.
1. If she says yes -- GOOD
2. If she says no -- F in chat bois and blame it on the high
I meant the crafts bit xD Art is relaxing tbhI do art.... only guy in my class
The arts and crafts thing was simply an example. It is a very ideal sample since its an activity you can compare and contrast via the creations you 2 make.
Apply what I said to whatever you 2 find common activities with.
Big brain. Remind me to ask to for a plan
I suck cock at art but you get judged if you try so I got a 90 currently (I just dick around the whole class)
Why did you post this twice? (Once in General and once in Feedback..)
Anyway; this is my answer from the other one:
Wait till you're out of high school man. Thank me later. Stay friends though; there's nothing wrong with that.
Don't overthink the convo, just focus on listening to what they're saying rather than what to say next and you'll never run out of things to talk about. Use open ended questions as well;
Hope this helps my man!
My experience comes from having a relationship for a year and a half; best of luck my friend.[DOUBLEPOST=1576022799][/DOUBLEPOST]
Also, just to add; 'awkward' silence is only awkward if you make it awkward. In our society, we've been so enveloped with our phones that we've lost touch in real-life communication. Silence/pause in a conversation isn't awkward unless you make it out to be; focus on listening to what she is saying and you'll have no issue filling those gaps. If you can't think of anything or you forgot what she said, find something to compliment her on that's memorable and unique. Not something like "I like your hair"; every guy says that to her. Something charismatic and memorable like, 'Hey, I really like how interesting you are, and how creative you are' for example. She'll never forget that.
Also, the more you practice talking to random women/friends/whoever it is, the better you will get at open communication. I used to be so introverted until I just started getting out there and talking to people. I just learned to be super confident with who I am, and confidence is attractive.
Last tip I thought of; be sure to humble yourself. Nobody wants a showoff boyfriend that's all up in their ego. That doesn't mean you can't show off your talents, but do it in a way that's appropriate. Selfless behavior and comfort will go a long way in a relationship; be willing to compromise with her too if you get that far in.
Anyway; this is my answer from the other one:
Wait till you're out of high school man. Thank me later. Stay friends though; there's nothing wrong with that.
Don't overthink the convo, just focus on listening to what they're saying rather than what to say next and you'll never run out of things to talk about. Use open ended questions as well;
Hope this helps my man!
My experience comes from having a relationship for a year and a half; best of luck my friend.[DOUBLEPOST=1576022799][/DOUBLEPOST]
Thanks man, it's just idk what to talk to her about and then there is that awkward silence xD
Good luck with girls in the future too bro
Also, just to add; 'awkward' silence is only awkward if you make it awkward. In our society, we've been so enveloped with our phones that we've lost touch in real-life communication. Silence/pause in a conversation isn't awkward unless you make it out to be; focus on listening to what she is saying and you'll have no issue filling those gaps. If you can't think of anything or you forgot what she said, find something to compliment her on that's memorable and unique. Not something like "I like your hair"; every guy says that to her. Something charismatic and memorable like, 'Hey, I really like how interesting you are, and how creative you are' for example. She'll never forget that.
Also, the more you practice talking to random women/friends/whoever it is, the better you will get at open communication. I used to be so introverted until I just started getting out there and talking to people. I just learned to be super confident with who I am, and confidence is attractive.
Last tip I thought of; be sure to humble yourself. Nobody wants a showoff boyfriend that's all up in their ego. That doesn't mean you can't show off your talents, but do it in a way that's appropriate. Selfless behavior and comfort will go a long way in a relationship; be willing to compromise with her too if you get that far in.
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Firstly, women like to be treated like property/objects. Phrases such as "Bitch, come over here" and "Whore, hurry up in the kitchen" work best.
If that doesn't work, then physical abuse to show dominance is the one direct answer to the situation, and should establish your dominance in the relationship.
No problem in advance.
If that doesn't work, then physical abuse to show dominance is the one direct answer to the situation, and should establish your dominance in the relationship.
No problem in advance.
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Hmm tricky indeed my piece of advice is make sure to ask questions but not the type wouldn’t lead to a yes or no answer like a fast reply think of a questions that you can get more information from like
How was your day? Is a nope try to mix in something like
How was your day did anything cool or exciting happen?
You probably know this but it’s better safe then sorry
How was your day? Is a nope try to mix in something like
How was your day did anything cool or exciting happen?
You probably know this but it’s better safe then sorry
Be confident and play hard to get. It's not always good to be overerly nice, be a bit of a dickhead, girls like that. I think MCM is also the worst place to ask for advice, I presume most people on here don't even speak to girls, go ask some of your mates instead.
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